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Breast Feeding
As everyone is aware, this is the best method of feeding for your baby. It provides a ready prepared source of milk contain all the nutritional needs that your baby has, without the need for sterilising or preparing bottles. It is an "anywhere, anytime" method of feeding that provides some immunity to infections for the baby, from certain things such as coughs and colds.
During the first 3 - 4 days after the birth, there is not a lot of milk present in the breast. There is a substance present, however called Colostrum. This is a thick clear coloured solution that is rich in antibodies, which help us to fight infection. This substance is very important to the health of a breast-fed baby, providing very good nourishment.
Problem 1.
You feel that you are always feeding your baby.
He/ she wants to suckle for long periods of time, sometimes up to 2
hours, and then will only settle for an hour before wanting to be fed again.
Solution. There is no solution to this! This is an entirely normal occurrence in breastfed babies in he first 3 days of life. It happens because of the lack of a large quantity of milk in the breast, meaning that the baby needs to suckle much more to get what he needs. On the positive side, however, the amount that you allow the baby to feed, will dictate the amount of milk that you produce when it finally comes into the breast, so will be more likely to be able to sustain your baby entirely with your own milk.
After 3 - 4 days, you will notice your breasts becoming lumpy, heavy and tender. This is the point at which the milk is coming into the breast. It is important at this stage that you wear a good well fitting feeding or support bra, as you breasts have no natural means of support, and when they become heavy risk stretching and sagging.
Problem 2. You thought your baby would settle down to a regular feeding pattern when your milk came in, but he still seems to need to feed as frequently, although maybe not for so long.
Solution 2. Don't worry, this is also temporary. As your milk comes into the breast, the baby can smell it and can go into what can only be compared to a "feeding frenzy". This will settle down as the baby becomes more satisfied. When your baby feeds, allow it to empty one entire breast before moving him to the other. This is because there are 2 types of milk produced, the fore and the hind milk. The fore milk is a watery "drink" for the baby, to satisfy him until the hind milk, which is thicker and more nutritious is" let down" by the breast. (You may feel this happening, as a "cold" or Tingly" sensation). If your baby is not allowed to have the hind milk, he will not satisfy and you may see him lose weight also. You can initially assess whether your breast is empty in 2 ways. Firstly compare its weight to the other full breast; it will now be soft, squashy and light in comparison. Secondly, your baby may appear anxious and unable to feed, even if still apparently hungry.
Problem 3. My nipples feel very painful and sore
Solution 3. This is a common problem, especially for first time breast feeders. Most women will feel a little tender and sore when breast feeding at first. It is a temporary problem lasting a few days. Sometimes it is due to the baby not holding onto the nipple in the right place, at other times it is wear and tear from a baby that is frequently feeding. In either case ask your midwife to check the positioning of the baby at the breast. He/she should have his lips curled back when feeding and have as much of the areola (Dark area surrounding the nipple) in its mouth that is possible, as this is the area that he / she needs to "milk". If you feel sore, don't waste money on nipple creams, use a small drop of your own breast milk, rub it in and leave your nipples exposed to the air. It'll work wonders!
BOTTLE FEEDING.
Bottle-feeding provides the baby with all the nutrition it needs to grow, but without the antibodies that breast milk provides. It can be a time consuming way to feed your baby, when you consider that you need to wash the bottles and all their related equipment, sterilise them, mix them, store them, carry them when going out and reheating them. However, you should not feel bad or a failure if you choose this method of feeding for whatever reason, as your baby will still thrive and grow, and a happy baby makes for a happy mum.
Problem 1. How do I make up my baby's feeds?
Solution 1. Always use sterilised equipment as you may risk diarrhoea and vomiting which can be very serious. Sterilise according to the manufacturers instructions. Before you start, boil a kettle of FRESH water and allow it to cool for 15 - 20 minutes. Wash your hands! Mix just slightly more than your baby takes on average. For example, if your baby takes 3 fluid ounces of milk at a feed, you will need to mix 4. This allows a little extra if your baby feels very hungry. Firstly, pour the water from the kettle, into the bottle up to the 4 oz mark. Always add water first otherwise the concentration of water to milk powder will be too strong, and the baby will receives too much sodium which could damage the kidneys over a period of time. In your bottle of milk powder, there will be a scoop. Fill the scoop with powder, and then LEVEL it off with the back of a sterilised knife. (Do not pack the powder down as again it will mean the baby gets the incorrect balance of powder too water). When you have done this, invert and attach the teat and shake gently until all particles of powder has been dissolved. Store at the top and back of the fridge.
PROBLEM 2. Is it safe to reheat my bottles into he microwave?
SOLUTION 2. It is generally advised that you do not heat bottles in the microwave, use warm water instead. However if you are going to use the microwave, try to observe the following rules: -
· Use a low heat setting
· Heat for a few seconds at a time. You can always do a little more!
· Shake the bottle vigorously before testing, as a microwave can leave "pockets" of boiling liquid.
PROBLEM 3. How often should I feed my baby?
SOLUTION 3. Most health professionals advocate demand feeding, allowing your baby to tell you when he needs feeding and how much he wants. However some babies can feed for comfort as well as nutrition. If you find your baby is taking large feeds every couple of hours, this may be the case, and you could end up with an overweight baby or a baby with colic. Try instead, to give your baby a drink of cooled boiled water if it has only been a short while since the last feed.
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This is the name given to the problem of trapped or excess wind in a baby of up to 3 months of age.
WHAT CAUSES IT?
A build up of air in the baby's stomach, which becomes trapped due to inadequate or inefficient winding, or overfeeding of the baby.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS?
WHAT
CAN I DO?
REMEMBER: - This is a VERY common complaint. You are not alone - seek others who are in the same situation. They may have some useful tips themselves to give you.
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WHAT IS IT?
This is a very common condition seen in newborn babies from about 3 - 10 days old. It is seen by a yellowy pigmentation in the skin and the eyes, and for most poses no problem although some babies need to go under a special ultraviolet light, called photo therapy, to help them to get rid of it.
It happens after birth when the baby starts to break down extra red blood cells that it needed before birth. A babys haemaglobin is roughly twice the level of yours at birth, and it needs to be reduced. When the body breaks down the red cells, a yellow pigment, or dye, is released which stains the skin. This is jaundice.
HOW
DO I TREAT IT?
Most babies will clear the jaundice by about the time they are 10 days old, occasionally a little longer. You can help it along, by feeding the baby frequently during this time, every 3 hours is a good guide. This is because the particles of waste food attach themselves to the pigment particles and carry them out of the body with the waste. You may notice at this time, that your baby's nappies become yellowy green and more runny, and the urine is a brighter yellow. Put your baby in bright daylight or even some sunshine for short bursts. This will help speed up the process.
HOW DO I KNOW IF IT NEEDS
TREATING?
You don't, but your midwife will!
There are signs she will look for: -
If she suspects that the jaundice is in need of treatment, she will take a sample of blood and send it to the hospital, where they will test it immediately. I f the jaundice is shown to be bad, she will arrange for your baby to go under the special photo therapy lights. They usually only need to be under for 24 hours, as the light helps the body to breakdown and excrete the jaundice more quickly.
You can stay with your baby during this time, although you may find the light disrupting to your sleep.
Your baby will be nursed naked, lying on a nappy in a warm covered cot or incubator. He/she will have special bandages on to cover the eyes as the light can damage the baby's delicate eyes if exposed for too long.
A further blood sample will be taken 12 hours after completion of the phototherapy to make sure that the blood levels do not rise again. If they remain down, your baby will be allowed home.
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WHY
IS IT DONE?
In this
country, thyroid disease and allergies to certain proteins in our diet are very
common. About 6 - 10 days after
birth, we test the blood of a new baby, to discover whether that baby is prone
to either of the above.
The
incidence of these problems is as follows: -
Thyroid = 1:2,500
Allergy = 1:13,000
Although
these change, and it may seem that the risk is very small, if the conditions are
left untreated, they WILL cause brain damage, handicap or mental retardation.
HOW
IS IT DONE?
Your
midwife usually does this test at home. It
is very quick and simple. She will
prick the side of your baby's heel, and either collects a small sample of blood
in a bottle, or she will collect 4 small spots of blood on a special card.
This will then be sent off for testing.
If you don't hear anything by the time the baby is 3 weeks old, all is
well.
WHAT
IS THE TREATMENT?
It
is the aim that the baby be on treatment by the time it is 3 weeks old!
Treatment is simple: -
For
Thyroid problems, a medicine will be prescribed to be given daily (Maybe for
very long term use)
For
dietary allergies, a baby will have to have a special diet to follow from the
time of weaning
SO
PLEASE, HAVE YOUR BABY TESTED!!
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SLEEPING.
Q.
My baby sleeps allot in the day but wakes up at night.
What can I do?
A.
Your
baby has no concept of day or night. He
wakes when he is hungry or uncomfortable and when he feels better again, he will
sleep. Nighttime is usually the
most difficult time, as this is when you baby may become windy (See Colic
section), or wake up following a very restful day sleeping.
There are a number of things that may help: -
·
Wake your baby
up at regular intervals in the day. Do
not let him sleep for more than 4 - 5 hours at any one time
·
Pay extra
attention to your winding techniques (see Colic section for tips)
·
Avoid
excessive handling or passing around.
This is unsettling for your baby, and you WILL be up all night!!
·
Try bathing
your baby just before you go to bed. This
helps to tire him out.
·
Wrap him
firmly in a blanket - your midwife will show you how. This makes him feel secure. (Keep an eye on his temperature -
see section on cot death)
Q.
My baby "jumps" in her sleep.
Is this normal?
A.
Yes. Your baby is very
sensitive to noise. Noise at a
normal level won't necessarily disturb her, but she will startle readily to loud
noises. Relax - it won't do her any
harm.
Q.
I thought baby's slept all the time.
Mine lies awake for ages, is there anything wrong
A.
No. Babies often lie awake
looking around. They cannot see
detail clearly at a distance, but they respond to noises, colours, shapes and
movement. If your baby lies like
this for long periods of time, try sitting him/her in a baby seat for a while so
that
He/she
can see what is going on better. It
is good stimulation for them.
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Cot
death remains the biggest killer of babies under 6 months old. However, since the introduction of new guidelines, the death
rate has been very dramatically reduced. It
should be remembered however, that cot death is not that common occurrence, with
the vast majority of babies remaining healthy throughout their infancy.
There
are no guarantees that this tragic event does not happen to you, but there are a
few things that you can do to help prevent it.
They are as follows: -
·
Do not allow
smoking around the baby. This
encourages coughs, colds and chest infections, which could affect your baby's
breathing.
·
Sleep your
baby on its back or side. A baby
lying on its front is at risk of breathing in vomit, should it be sick in its
cot. Your baby will not choke by
lying on his back - if you are worried, lay him on his side.
·
Do not
overheat your baby. It is better
for your baby to be cooler rather than warmer.
Your baby's head should be left exposed at night i.e.: - no hat, as this
is the only area that your baby can lose heat from if he/she gets too hot.
·
Sleep your
baby with its feet at the bottom of the cot.
This reduces the risk of the baby sliding down under the covers and
overheating or suffocating.
·
If you have
any worries at all about your baby's health, seek medical advice immediately.
DO
NOT IGNORE YOUR INSTINCTS, GET HELP!
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